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Being the nice guy is absolutely repulsive to women. It's like a giant magnet PUSHING women away - and most guys are being “nice” without even realizing it's a coping mechanism or they think the way to a woman's heart is by being agreeable or a feminist or "safe”.

The truth is that there is a HUGE difference between being a nice guy and a good man. A good man is a leader. He isn't afraid of rejection so he asks for what he wants. He has a fantastic concept of himself. These things are not true of the nice guy - and this is why nice guys finish last. The nice guy is nice because he's trying to avoid his deepest fear. He's trying to get what he wants without ever having to ask for it. In fact, nice guys aren't nice at all, they are just trying to manipulate their way out of ever feeling rejected.

Trust me, I've worked with enough men to know that it's a hard pill to swallow. If you resonate, you probably feel called out right now… and that's a good thing! Because being a nice guy isn't getting you anywhere, in fact, it's keeping you stuck in the same terrible outcome, reinforcing negative self concept and self esteem and putting you in the friendzone - it's time for a change.

If you feel sick of being treated like a door mat, you're a people pleaser, you don't feel like the women you want want you, you're afraid that being authentic will prevent you from being loved or you're just plain afraid of rejection - then today's video is for you.

With Extraordinary love,

Justina Victoria

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